Easy Destiny
Our own feelings of rightness, feelings not influenced by our own or others' expectations, always lead us along the easiest route of our destiny, whether or not we know what that destiny is.
Going against our feelings of rightness is like going against the natural flow of The Universe. It can be done, like walking upstream in a swift knee-deep current can be done, but it is tiring and very hard work.
Going against our feelings of rightness is allowed. The Universe in its infinite diversity has room for everybody to be right.