You Unconditional Love
The subject of love has been debated since a long time ago, probably even before language was developed and only gestures and actions (or maybe telepathy) were used to convey messages.
Okay, I'll add my own ideas to the pile.
Love is a feeling of oneness with someone or something. It is a feeling of being integrated, blended together as one. This applies to loving self, too.
Incomplete love is the desire to attain a oneness. It is the desire to integrate with someone or something else, the desire to blend together and become one. This applies to incomplete love of self, too.
Half love is the desire to attain a oneness, but feeling no love in return. Even when the love is returned, it isn't felt. At this point,there are two parts of love – the feeling of loving and the feeling of being loved. The only way to know, beyond a shadow of a doubt, what love feels like is to experience, simultaneously, both the feeling of loving and the feeling of being loved – and that means loving yourself.
Unconditional love is a love so total that not only are there no conditions placed on that love, there is not even the perception that a condition is possible.
Love that has any conditions at all is not true love. Conditions are judgments. Even the perception that a condition is possible is a judgment. A judgment is an attempt or desire to separate, and is the great destroyer of love. True love is always unconditional. And that applies when judging or loving yourself as well as when judging or loving others.
Unconditional love of others and by others can only be experienced when you know unconditional love for yourself.
All-That-Is is unconditional love. Unconditional love is the basic motive, the prime vibration. All other vibrations are merely variations of the prime. Look for it; you'll find it emanating from you and through you; you'll perceive it in everyone, in everything.